BDSM Test

    Take this test to learn your BDSM archetype!


    Many people see BDSM as a type of sexual activity that involves different levels of dominance and submission. However, BDSM is a lot more than just different levels of dominance and submission. There are so many different play options to explore, each with its own unique set of pleasures and challenges.

    Whether you’re into spanking, bondage, role-playing, or something else entirely, there’s something for everyone in the world of BDSM. It can be a fun and thrilling way to spice up your sex life, but it’s important to know what you’re getting into before you try it. With the right partner, you can explore all of your kinks and fantasies in a safe, fun, and consensual way. So why not give it a try?

    Take this BDSM test to learn more about the world of BDSM and find an archetype you most relate to.

    1. I want to be in charge of my partner's and my sexual life.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    2. I enjoy making my partner surrender to me, rather than them doing so willingly.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    3. I prefer my partner to make all the sexual decisions for me.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    4. I would enjoy having sex with several people at the same time.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    5. I enjoy being dominated in the bedroom.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    6. I enjoy experiencing pain during sex and seeing the results (marks, bruises, etc.)
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    7. Someone seeing me naked or having sex turns me on.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    8. Large age difference in sex or a relationship is what attracts me.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    9. Even if I think I will not like it, I am willing to try it.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    10. Pretending to be an animal turns me on.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    11. Humiliation and physical restriction of my partner during sex is a huge turn-on.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    12. It's perfectly okay to have sex in public. There's no reason to hide in private.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    13. Physically restricting my partner during sex turns me on.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    14. Being helpless and restricted during sex is a huge turn-on.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    15. I enjoy feeling like I am the prey being hunted by a predator.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    16. I would enjoy being treated like a sex slave in the bedroom.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    17. I don't have any specific sexual turn-ons. My needs are pretty much ordinary.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    18. In a relationship, romance is more important than sex and kink.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    19. If I'm single, I would consider polyamorous relationship(s) or being a guest in a threesome.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    20. I get more aroused when I'm physically restricted during sex.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    21. I desire to be a slave to my Master/Mistress.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    22. During sex/BDSM, I would like to be fully tied up.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    23. I enjoy being degraded and humiliated by my partner(s) in a sexual way.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    24. I enjoy pretending to be older/younger than I actually am.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    25. I get turned on when my partner doesn't respect me during sex or BDSM.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    26. I love being treated as someone's pet: eating from a bowl, staying in a cage, etc.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    27. Seeing the fear in my partner's eyes when they're about to experience pain turns me on.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    28. I would like to be someone's 24/7 sex slave.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    29. I enjoy being coerced or forced into submission more than submitting spontaneously.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    30. My goal in life would be to live with a group of slaves who are owned by me and who serve me.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    31. I have a lot of kinky fantasies I want to try out, definitely more than a regular person.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    32. I can change roles: be sexually dominant now, and be sexually submissive another time.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    33. When things I try don't work out the way I wanted them to, I don't stress.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    34. I enjoy it when my partner is restrained during sex or BDSM activities.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    35. I think it's really cute when my partner acts childish, like colors or plays on a playground.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    36. I enjoy feeling like hunter hunting a prey.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    37. I enjoy watching people being naked or having sex.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    38. If I couldn't fulfill all of my partner's sexual desires, I wish them to find someone else who could.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    39. During sex, I often behave in animalistic ways (scratch, howl, etc.).
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    40. I would like to treat my partner as my pet: feed them out of a bowl, keep in a cage, etc.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    41. If my partner can't fulfill my sexual desires, I may want to seek out other partners to fulfill my desires.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    42. I find it very appealing when my partner takes on a nurturing and guiding role in our relationship.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    43. I would definitely make some money from selling porn clips of myself if I could.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    44. I enjoy verbally degrading my partner during sex/BDSM play.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    45. I find it arousing when I'm afraid of what my partner might do to me physically.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    46. Teasing your dom by talking back in a disobedient way sounds entertaining.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    47. I like it when my partner is in charge in the bedroom and tells me what to do.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    48. I feel a strong need to address my partner as a superior and to treat them with the utmost respect.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    49. I want to be in charge of my partner(s) 24/7. I will take full responsibility for that.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    50. Being sexually tortured sounds appealing to me.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    51. I could live in BDSM fantasy 24/7, leaving the whole world behind.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    52. I can't be only submissive or only dominant. I want to experience both.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    53. I enjoy being in control of my partners, especially during sex.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    54. I like it when my partner pretends to be an animal.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    55. I like to be completely in charge in the bedroom and order my partner(s) exactly what to do.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    56. I like to inflict pain during sex. I especially enjoy seeing the results of my actions (bruises, tears, etc.)
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    57. Torturing someone sexually sounds appealing.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    58. During sex, I enjoy being verbally degraded.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    59. I enjoy degrading my partners and verbally abusing them.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    60. I enjoy being addressed as a superior by my partner.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    61. Serving my partner 24/7 is my life goal. I don't want or need anything else.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    62. I am the fatherly/motherly figure in my relationship and I enjoy that.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes
    63. I love acting like a child. Fooling around turns me on.
    Absolutely not
    No
    Maybe
    Yes
    Absolutely yes

    Your Result

    The Dominant

    A dominant in BDSM is someone who takes charge during sexual and/or erotic play. This person may be in charge of setting rules and boundaries, dictating what activities will take place, and providing instruction and guidance to their partner. Dominants can be men or women and may enjoy wielding power and control in a sexual context.

    Your Result

    The Submissive

    A submissive is someone who consents to being controlled in a sexual or BDSM scene. They may enjoy relinquishing control to their partner, or may simply enjoy the experience of doing something new and different. A submissive is a more passive participant of the BDSM activities and may enjoy receiving orders and instructions from a dominant partner.

    Your Result

    The Switch

    A switch is someone who enjoys both dominating and being submissive in sexual activities. They may take on either role at different times or with different partners. Some switches prefer to stick to one role, while others enjoy switching back and forth. This archetype can be found in both heterosexual and homosexual relationships.

    Your Result

    The Masochist

    The Masochist archetype is one who enjoys the sensation of pain. They may find sexual pleasure in being spanked, whipped, or tortured. For some, the pain itself is the turn-on, while others enjoy the power dynamics involved in BDSM relationships. Masochists often have a strong sense of self-awareness and are comfortable with their desires. They are not interested in hurting others and typically take precautions to ensure their partners' safety.

    Your Result

    The Sadist

    A sadist is someone who enjoys inflicting pain or humiliation on their partners. They derive pleasure from the suffering of others and often enjoy watching their partners squirm and suffer.

    Your Result

    The Exhibitionist

    The Exhibitionist archetype is someone who derives sexual pleasure from exposing themselves to others. They may enjoy performing for an audience or simply having someone witness their sexual exploits. For the Exhibitionist, exhibitionism is a way to get off and they often take great pleasure in the reactions of those who see them. This archetype can be found in both vanilla and kinky settings but is particularly common in BDSM scenes. Exhibitionists often enjoy pushing boundaries and testing their limits, and they may enjoy incorporating exhibitionism into their sex life in various ways.

    Your Result

    The Voyeur

    The Voyeur archetype is one who enjoys watching others engage in sexual activity. They may or may not participate themselves, but the thrill of watching others get off is enough to get them going. They often have a kink for exhibitionism and may enjoy exposing themselves or watching others do the same. This archetype can be found in both vanilla and kinkier circles and can be a thrill-seeker in all aspects of their life.

    Your Result

    The Vanilla

    The Vanilla archetype in BDSM refers to someone who is not interested in kink or fetish activities but instead enjoys a more traditional sexual lifestyle. This could involve monogamous relationships, vanilla sex, and/or vanilla bondage. People who identify as Vanilla may enjoy incorporating some light spanking or bondage into their sex life, but for the most part, prefer to keep things simple.

    Your Result

    The Kinkster

    The Kinkster is the archetype of the BDSM player who loves to push boundaries and explore their kinks. They are always looking for new and exciting experiences, and they get a thrill from pushing the limits of their partners. They often have a very experimental approach to sex, and they are always looking for new ways to spice things up. The Kinkster is always up for trying new things, and they are always looking for new ways to get their kicks.

    Your Result

    The Groupie

    The Groupie archetype is a submissive who is attracted to dominant individuals or groups. They may enjoy being subservient to a specific person or group of people and derive a great deal of pleasure from serving them. Groupies often enjoy the thrill of being around powerful and confident people and may enjoy sexual activities that involve submission and domination.

    Your Result

    The Play Partner

    The Play Partner archetype is someone who enjoys engaging in BDSM play with others. They may enjoy both giving and receiving sensation, and often enjoy switching between roles. They are typically communicative and enthusiastic about exploring new activities and ideas with their partners. They are often patient and willing to take the time to ensure that everyone involved is enjoying themselves.

    Your Result

    The Caregiver

    Also known as Daddy/Mommy. The Caregiver archetype is one that is often found in BDSM relationships. This archetype is often someone who enjoys taking care of others and making them feel comfortable and safe. They may enjoy providing emotional support and tending to the needs of their partner. They may be nurturing and protective, and often have a strong desire to please their partner

    Your Result

    The Hunter

    The hunter archetype is someone who is always in pursuit of a new thrill or experience. They are always looking for new challenges and are always pushing their boundaries. They are often adrenaline junkies who enjoy the thrill of the chase. They are also often very passionate and intense in their pursuits.

    Your Result

    The Prey

    The prey archetype is someone who enjoys being submissive in a BDSM relationship. They may enjoy being dominated physically and/or emotionally by their partner.

    Your Result

    The Provocateur

    The Provocateur archetype is someone who enjoys pushing boundaries and testing the limits of their partners. They may enjoy playing the role of the "bad boy" or "bad girl", and love to see how far they can push their partners before they push back. They often enjoy pushing people's buttons and seeing how much they can get away with. While some people may find this type of behavior exciting, others may find it frustrating or even dangerous.

    Your Result

    The Master

    The Master archetype is a dominant figure in the BDSM community. They are in charge, in control, and often enjoy being the one who directs the action. Masters are usually experienced in BDSM and know how to get the most out of their partners. They may enjoy wielding power and inflicting pain, or they may simply take pleasure in dominating their partners. Whatever their motivations, Masters are always in charge and always in control.

    Your Result

    The Slave

    The Slave archetype is one of the most commonly found in BDSM. It is a role that can be played by both men and women, and typically involves submission to the will of a dominant partner. The slave may be asked to perform tasks or sexual acts, or may simply be used for the pleasure of the dominant partner. In some cases, the slave may also be subjected to physical or emotional abuse.

    Your Result

    The Owner

    The Owner archetype is one who takes charge and enjoys being in control. They often have a dominant personality and love to be in charge of their relationships. They are usually very confident and know what they want. The Owner archetype can be a great leader, but can also be demanding and ruthless. They are not afraid to take charge and can be very demanding of their partners.

    Your Result

    The Pet

    The Pet archetype in BDSM is someone who enjoys being treated like a domesticated animal. They may enjoy being given orders, being made to eat from a bowl on the floor, and being groomed and petted. This type of person often finds submission sexually arousing and may enjoy performing sexual acts for their dominant partner.

    Your Result

    The Little

    Also known as Boy/Girl. The Little archetype is a submissive who often takes on the role of a child in a BDSM relationship. They may enjoy being babied, being told what to do, and playing games that involve age-play. Littles may also enjoy wearing childish clothing and engaging in activities that are typically associated with childhood.

    Note: Keep in mind that this BDSM test is for entertainment and educational purposes only. Before you engage in any kind of BDSM activity, evaluate the risks thoroughly, have a safety word (gesture). Also, make sure your partner(s) is/are trustworthy and you’ve taken care of any other required precautions.

    Leave a Reply

    Your email address will not be published.