Chastity Cage Is Here To Free You through Immure!
- History Behind Chastity Cages
- What Exactly Is A Chastity Cage?
- The Chastity Keyholder
- How to Choose A Chastity Cage?
- Safety Precautions And Hygiene
- Final Thoughts
- FAQ
Not all cages keep you bound. Some cages arouse your interest, they allure you deeper inside yourself and make you realize those erogenous fetishes within. Likewise, chastity cages can be used to venture into areas hitherto unknown to you. Chastity cages or belts might feel like a complex contraption for some who are new to discovering these kinks that aren’t that unusual in an otherwise sexually explorative mind. But rest assured, there is nothing complicated about it, really. And this article is your one-stop for everything you need to know about a chastity cage or chastity keyholders.
The History Behind Chastity Cages: Why Do They Exist And Where Did They Come From?
To begin with, the concept of putting the sexual organs in a “cage” started way earlier. It was practiced most recently, up until the early twentieth century, in a way where masturbation was deemed disgusting. Mostly women and children who were girls were made to wear chastity “covers” in order to prevent them from pleasuring themselves. We’ve come a long way since and the times have caught up with us because where a dominatrix is concerned, the chastity cage is all about the prolonged denial of release of a man in the most steamy and sensual way.
And isn’t it fun? It is! An anecdote comes to my mind where the male, after willingly locking himself in a chastity cage, watches his partner pleasure themself while he grunts and begs to be freed. His denial of release intensifies his carnal desires and he pines for his orgasm – that is his prize. But he won’t get this prize until his partner opens him up (more about chastity keyholders in the later section). I think chastity cages exist because of the same reason every other kink does – the human brain loves to cook up its own fetishes.
Fantasy is different for every other individual and pleasure can be obtained in numerous unimaginable ways. But let’s get down to some useful and practical facts about chastity cages and chastity keyholders before we let our minds wander into a sensuous wonderland.
What Exactly Is A Chastity Cage?
Typically, a chastity cage is a small device, shaped like a cage and made of either metal or plastic. And these cages are relatively lightweight as well. There are various kinds of chastity cages or belts – different types suiting different needs. The cage usually comes with one or more keys. The function of the device is to prevent the male from ejaculating. This makes the male develop a sexual edge. The urgency and pleasure of denial reaches its zenith because the cage can be unlocked only by the key it comes with. Often, a male expresses his desire to be locked in a chastity cage and gives the key to a chastity keyholder.
The Chastity Keyholder
The chastity keyholder can be the partner of the male locked in the chastity cage or it can be a dominatrix or this service might be taken up by a professional key holder. It is advised to offer the key to someone else rather than keeping the key to oneself as it compromises your desire to be teased. Sex becomes a seductive game and the person holding the key, the chastity keyholder holds the power.
Chastity keyholders may ask, where to place the key? Usually, the cage comes with two keys. Do not put a male in chastity and forget about the key. It is ideal to display, at all times, one of the keys to the person who is locked. It teases the partner in an erotic way. The key is a symbol of all his sexual desires and your libido and can be used as a tool of behavioral modification as per the wishes of the chastity keyholder. The chastity keyholder controls the possibility of orgasm.
All the raw and unused sexual energy can be diverted into little deeds. These tasks are given to the locked man by someone who is currently the chastity keyholder. It could be the mistress or the dominatrix or simply the partner of the person in the cage. Performing these deeds could lead to the release from the chastity cage and help make the process more interesting. The other key is to be placed safely in a place accessible to the chastity keyholder or the male in case of emergencies.
How to Choose A Chastity Cage?
The chastity cage could be chosen independently of the chastity keyholder. The chastity cage should fit snugly along the length but should absolutely have spacing up to two fingers around the tip of the penis. It is very important that the cage is comfortable when you lock it if you plan to wear it for a longer time. The spacing is necessary because you don’t get to take the cage off just like that even while using the bathroom. Moreover, it comes in different sizing, interchangeable rings, and spacers to provide a perfect fit.
I’ve put together a list below, with some options that you can consider if you’re looking for a chastity cage!
Chastity Cage With Urethral Tube
This is a long chastity cage and the most user-friendly as well. It comes with a urethral tube, that you can or cannot use. The best part about this chastity cage is it’s durable, being made from stainless steel. You can follow the link and actually look at the NSFW reviews that show you pictures of people wearing a chastity cage. For a beginner who wants to know more about how to use chastity cages, this is an ideal choice.
Custom 3D Printed Chastity Cage
This chastity cage comes with two options. You either get a lock and key to go with it or you just simply get the cage without the lock and key. But what’s a cage without a lock, yeah? So I’ve included the option to get the cage with the lock and key above. But if you feel like otherwise, get it here. Lock-less options are for more mature users who have supreme self-control. But the fun is so much more when you’re locked in. The material of this chastity cage is durable and easy to clean, and it’s one of the most popular cages out there!
Safety Precautions And Hygiene
You’re prone to feel some dryness in your skin when using a chastity cage for some period of time. It is useful to use a lotion, or lube, or petroleum jelly, whatever works for you. While sleeping with the cage on, or traveling in an airplane the metal or the plastic cages – depending on your comfort – can make a huge difference. Read: What about the metal detectors in an airport? They will detect your metal cage!
Moreover, it is mandatory to pay importance to the sizing, interchangeable rings, and spacers to prevent blue balls. Another aspect of safety and hygiene is cleaning yourself. The cage must not start smelling – this being the result of bacterial growth. Your chastity keyholder might open your cage while you clean yourself because, even though you’re totally allowed to be a hot mess, safety comes first.
A safeword is of utmost importance:
The teasing and the begging and the denial of release may lead to uncountable pleasures but it is highly recommended to decide on a safeword between you and the chastity key holder in case of emergencies. Everyone has a limit of endurance and the safeword helps you enjoy yourself without causing any serious damage.
Added tips:
The thought of exercising the power a chastity keyholder has over the male often turns the chastity keyholder on. And then again, some men find it extremely arousing for them to be dominated or controlled. Even if you have no prior experience in BDSM, or even if you’re experimenting with a chastity cage, this activity can be pleasurable to both the chastity keyholder and the one being held.
Come up with fun ways of exploring each other’s fetishes, make decisions together, seduce your partner, and as a chastity keyholder, say no to his whims because you make the rules. You decide how dominating you want to be as a chastity keyholder.
Final Thoughts
Remember the safeword. It is fine to try and gain more information and get used to the whole game of seduction at your own pace but the objective remains to have fun, to explore, and to be satisfied. Just one small tip from this side would be, don’t lose the key!!
Frequently Asked Questions about Chastity Cage
Here you will find answers to common questions about chastity cages. Have any extra? Leave them in the comments below.
Is it safe to use a chastity cage?
The health issues definitely cross one’s mind in regard to using a chastity cage. While some might say that using the chastity cage shrinks the size of the penis when erect or that the penis is not able to reach its former length. It should be kept in mind that these are the extreme cases where the chastity cage has been worn throughout for days or for long periods of time bordering even for months.
Will the size of my penis be seriously affected after using a chastity cage for a long period?
Once the use of a chastity cage is discontinued, the penis regains its former shape and size after some period of time. There are no other specific health hazards, per se, although it is advisable to give yourself a massage every once in a while to keep the blood flowing to your sexual organs.
